What Session Is Right for Me?

Choosing the right session can feel a bit overwhelming, especially if you’re new to BDSM, or if you’ve got a few curiosities but aren’t sure where to start. I offer a variety of session types - all designed with different paces, purposes, and headspaces in mind. This is your quick, honest guide to understanding the difference between them.

Whether you’re nervous, curious, or ready to dive deep - there’s something here for you.

Training Sessions - Instructional | Slow | For Me, not you
Let’s start with this, because I get a lot of questions about it:
Training sessions are not BDSM scenes. There’s little to no Domination involved. I’m not building a fantasy. I’m building skill.
Training is time I’ve set aside to focus on specific areas I’m developing - rope bondage, caning technique, and anal play. These are slower-paced, stripped-down, and highly practical. You’re essentially offering your body as practice material while I refine My craft.

That doesn’t mean I’m careless - I still approach all training with care and respect. But it’s not about you. It’s about Me improving.

These sessions are:
Longer in duration and heavily discounted (around 1/3 or less of standard rates)
Ideal for people who enjoy being of service, or want to contribute to My growth
Bookable again and again (with recovery time in between for caning)

Important:
Training is not the same as an intro session for beginners. It’s not geared toward your learning, and it’s not structured with a submissive arc in mind. If you're very new, we’re probably better off starting with Power Hour or 90-minute session where I can lead the experience.

Power Hour (60 minutes) - Focused | Short & Sweet | Fast-paced play
This is your simple, direct, and effective BDSM session. Great if you’re looking for something classic like spanking, CBT, body worship, teasing, bondage, or a light D/s dynamic.

There’s not a much time to warm up like a longer session, but that works well if you know what you want and are looking for a quick, intense exchange. More fun than a lunchtime meeting.

Good for:
People with limited time
Specific cravings (e.g., over-the-knee spanking, boot worship, edging)
Returning clients who want a focused top-up
Those dipping a toe into submission and want a small dose to start

90-Minute Sessions- Comfortable | Balanced | A bit of everything
Great for newcomers or those who want to explore more than one dynamic or activity. It gives us enough space to slow things down a little, check in properly, and try a couple of different things.

It’s also great if you’re someone who needs time to settle into your body or headspace before you feel ready to drop in.

Good for:
First-time visitors
Playing with multiple kinks (e.g. bondage + spanking, or protocol + edging)
Exploring your submissive headspace
Dominance with time for warm-up and cool-down

2–3 Hour Sessions - Expansive | Immersive | Unhurried
This is where things really start to open up. We have time to breathe, to settle in, to go somewhere - whether that’s deeper into submission, further into a scene, or simply more present in the dynamic.

There’s time to talk deeper, play, regular check-ins, adjust, and end with proper aftercare. We can explore different tools, roles, and headspaces without feeling like we’re on a clock.

Good for:
Heavier impact play
Emotional and psychological power exchange
Structured rituals and protocol
Longer service-oriented scenes
Deeper levels of trust and surrender

4+ Hour Sessions - Scene-building | Creative | For the invested
This is your sandbox. Longer sessions like this allow for a different kind of creativity - we can build, play, deconstruct, and shift gears multiple times. It’s not about intensity all the way through - it’s about layers.

We might start with a scene, move into a social or domestic element, come back into play again. We can work with costumes, rituals, fantasy, or extended teasing. These sessions often involve a mix of structured play and softer moments of control or intimacy.

Examples of how we could use this time:
Roleplay with setup, progression, and release (e.g., interrogations, discipline scenes, or captured fantasy)
Service-based dynamics that evolve throughout the session (e.g., protocol service, cleaning, massage, waiting)
Ritual-based scenes (collaring, punishment contracts, body inspection)
Combining multiple play types (anal, rope, sensation, psychological control)

Good for:
People in or exploring long-term dynamics
Creative roleplayers
Those craving a full immersive experience
Clients ready to explore the full emotional or erotic arc of submission

Overnight Sessions - Extended D/s | Intimate | Layered
Sleeping in a cage - or at My feet - is a different kind of surrender. Overnight sessions allow for a richer, slower, more natural rhythm. You’re not watching the clock. You’re following Me.

We might start the night with a scene and end the morning with a different one. Or I might simply decide how you’ll serve Me across the evening. You’ll be given instructions, structure, and presence - and you’ll be held accountable to it until I dismiss you the next day.

An Overnight allows for:
Deep emotional submission
A more organic rise and fall of intensity
Soft dominance (control in domestic moments: brushing teeth, folding clothes, serving tea)
Play + rest + play again (with room for pacing and recovery)

This is ideal for submissives who want to feel completely kept - physically, mentally, emotionally.

Mix & Match Options - Social + Play, or Training + Social
Some people want to ease in socially before dropping into a dynamic. Others like the contrast between kink and conversation. I offer combination-style sessions that include both.

Some ideas:
Play, followed by dessert
Discipline and worship, then dinner
Domination/ public play (think Dominant girlfriend)
A training session followed by debrief and dessert
Morning bondage, late brunch
Rope practice while we chat about books, music, or scenes, and break for food after.

This is particularly good for:
Nervous clients who want to break the ice
People craving a more holistic experience
Anyone who wants kink and connection, without pressure or pretence.

Still Unsure?
If you’re not sure where you fit, that’s okay. You don’t need to have it all figured out before reaching out. Many people start with a 2 hour session -enough time to explore without overcommitting.

If you’ve got specific interests in things like caning, bondage, or anal play - you can:
Book a Training Session to let Me experiment with you
Add that focus into a Standard Session so you also get the benefit of My Domination

You can always ask. The most important thing is that you show up honestly.

Ready to book?

Visit My Tributes & Rituals page and choose the length that suits where you’re at.
Initiate contact through the booking form, or email with intention.
And remember - you don’t need to “prove” you’re ready. We build from wherever you are.