The Silent Snub: The Hidden Costs of Ghosting a Dominatrix

As a Dominatrix, I've experienced frustrating encounters with clients who fail to communicate, or simply disappear without a word. Ghosting - the act of abruptly ending communication - not only wastes My time but also affects My livelihood. In this short blog, I'll delve into the reality of preparing a session, the consequences of ghosting, and the importance of communication in our professional relationship.

The Preparation and Anticipation
Before a session, I invest a significant amount of time, effort, and resources into preparing for our session. This includes:

* Reviewing the client's preferences and boundaries to ensure a tailored experience
* Selecting a suitable outfit, toys, and equipment to match their desires and requirements
* Setting up a safe and comfortable environment for our session
* Allocating time for our interaction, which may involve adjusting My schedule to accommodate their needs

All of this preparation comes with a cost, both financially and emotionally. I invest My time, energy, and resources into creating a unique experience, only to have the client vanish without a word.

The Consequences of Ghosting
When a client ghosts, it's not just a matter of inconvenience; it has real consequences. We:

* Lose money on preparation costs, such as toys, equipment, and attire
* Waste valuable time that could be spent with other clients
* Experience frustration and emotional distress, which can affect My mental well-being and overall performance
* Spend additional time and resources on administrative tasks, such as attempting to follow up on the client's status and updating My records.

The Importance of Communication
Communication is crucial in any relationship, including professional relationships. As a Dominatrix, I rely on open and honest communication to ensure that our session meets the client's expectations and respects their boundaries.

When a client ghosts, it not only reflects poorly on them but also damages their reputation within the sex worker community. It's essential to remember that people in the community talk and share information about our experiences with clients. A client's reputation can precede them, making it challenging to find a willing and trustworthy Dominatrix in the future.

The Unblock Fee
To discourage ghosting and encourage responsible communication, I've implemented an unblock fee for clients who wish to rebook with me after disappearing without a word. This fee is a small price to pay for the inconvenience and frustration caused by their actions.
Unblocking is discretionary.

Conclusion
Ghosting is a frustrating and unacceptable behaviour that have consequences for both the dominatrix and the client. As a professional, I expect open and honest communication from My clients. It's essential to respect My time, effort, and resources, as well as the boundaries and expectations we've established.

Remember, communication is key in our professional relationship. If you have any questions, concerns, or changes to your schedule, do not hesitate to reach out. I'm here to provide a unique and enjoyable experience, and I expect the same level of respect and professionalism in return.