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Fetiquette: What Makes You a Top-Tier Submissive

FETIQUETTE

Teal Revel

6/14/20243 min read

Anyone can kneel.
But not everyone earns the privilege of being seen.
Fewer still earn the privilege of being kept.

If you’re here, you already sense that I don’t offer a service - I offer a transformation. And transformation is never one-sided. It requires preparation. Presence. Devotion.

This isn’t a checklist. It’s a map.
A map for how to become the kind of submissive I remember. The kind I shape. The kind I reward.

1. You’re Receptive, Not Reactive

You don’t flinch at firm words. You don’t interrupt direction with nervous chatter. You listen with your whole body, and that makes Me want to give you more.

You know when to ask, when to obey, and when to hold still and feel. Your ability to receive—without resistance or ego - tells Me you’re ready for the deeper layers.

Example:
I once had a submissive arrive for a domestic protocol session. He said very little. He took off his shoes at the door, folded his coat neatly, and waited—hands behind his back, eyes cast down. I hadn’t told him to do any of this. He just knew. And when I finally entered the room and told him, “Good boy,” his shoulders softened with relief. He hadn’t even touched Me yet, but he was already worshipping with his behaviour.

2. You Want the Real Work

You’re not here to replay porn scripts. You’re not trying to top from the bottom. You’re here to learn something - about yourself, about control, about freedom, about what it means to surrender without collapse.

You crave the kind of session that lingers under your skin days later. Not because it was extreme, but because it was honest. And honesty, when paired with dominance, is what changes people.

3. You Offer Intentional Service

When you kiss My boots, you mean it. When you pour a drink, your hands don’t shake with fear - they tremble with anticipation. Every act is infused with purpose.

You’re not performative. You’re devotional. And in that, you become useful to Me—not just in play, but in presence.

Whether you’re lying beneath Me or handing Me your schedule to manage, the gesture is the same: I trust you to take the lead.

Example:
A long-distance submissive once asked to serve Me remotely. He created a daily ritual: made My tea order every morning - even though I wasn’t physically there. He’d kneel, present it to the camera, and only then would he begin his day. The point wasn’t the tea. The point was that he centered Me in his routine. He made room for devotion. And that act of mental obedience - quiet, unseen, unglamorous - told Me everything I needed to know about his potential.

4. You Let It Shift You

After our time together, you walk differently. You speak differently. Your posture is better. Maybe you journal more, or you start. Maybe you sleep better. Maybe you’ve finally learned how to apologise - to yourself, to others.

You don’t leave sessions feeling used. You leave feeling rewritten. And you understand that kink isn’t an escape - it’s a mirror. One that doesn’t lie.

Digital Devotion: Are You Online-Ready?

Even when we're behind screens, I feel the difference between a fantasy tourist and a genuine submissive.

You test your camera. You clean your space. You show up clothed with intent - because even in the digital realm, your presentation is a part of your offering.

You don’t send sloppy messages. You send updates, tributes, requests with clarity. You make Me feel held, even when I’m the one holding the reins.

What Happens When You Do It Right

When you move like this, I don’t just notice—I respond.

You get more.
More access.
More depth.
More vulnerability.
More of My attention, which is the rarest commodity I offer.

You don’t need to be perfect - you do need to be intentional.

Because in this space, I don’t just dominate.
I curate.
I create.
I elevate - but only when I’m given the right material to work with.

So tell Me…

Are you ready to be shaped?