Clean Enough to Worship
Fetiquette: Grooming, Hygiene, and the Ritual of Showing Up Worthy
FETIQUETTE
Let Me ask you something.
If you were meeting a Goddess, how would you prepare?
Would you rush out the door, not showered, with the nights sweat clinging to your skin? Would you forget to brush your teeth, clip your nails, or wash behind your ears?
Or would you get up earlier, and move slower?
Would you shower with reverence? Choose your clothing with intention? Present yourself not just as clean, but devotional?
This is the difference between showing up - and showing up.
This Isn’t Just About Hygiene. It’s About Care.
I can smell when you’ve smoked. I can tell when you didn’t floss.
I notice the stray hairs, the dry skin, the nervous sweat you tried to cover with a splash of cologne.
And while I’m not here to shame you for being human - I am here to remind you that I am not just any Woman.
You’re not coming to Me for a casual encounter. You’re coming to Me to submit. To be seen, undone, re-made.
Wouldn’t you want to arrive in a state that tells Me you’re ready?
Your Preparation Is a Form of Submission
Before we ever meet, I’m already reading you.
And your grooming speaks volumes.
The sub who books a hotel with a fresh robe laid out, , and chilled water waiting for Me? Already wetting My appetite.
The sub who messages to ask for My preferred scent or shaves because “I want every inch of Me to feel Your grip”? He’s made an impression—before he even kneels.
And the one who shows up reeking of aftershave, unwashed and breath sour?
Gone. Quietly. Painlessly. Blocked without a word.
Non-Negotiables
Write this down. Or better yet—engrave it in the part of you that aches to be useful.
Shower immediately before our time. Not in the morning. Not hours before.
Right before.
I want to feel the warmth still rising from your skin when I arrive.
Scrub your entire body. That includes:
Behind the ears
Neck and collarbone
Between the toes
Underarms
Groin and backside
Nails (trimmed and clean)
Floss and brush your teeth. Mouthwash is not a shortcut.
Trim and groom body hair. I don’t demand bare—but I do expect deliberate. I don’t want to see you’ve shaved in patches or left your backside a wild thicket. Tend your garden.
Deodorant, not cologne. If I want you scented, I’ll scent you Myself.
Dress in clean, breathable clothing. No sweaty gym kit, no last-night boxers. Come fresh. Or don’t come at all.
Bonus Points for Devotion
A towel laid out. Mouthwash prepared. A note on the mirror.
Manscaping done a day before so you’re not red or rashy.
A light meal beforehand so you don’t faint or burp under My heel.
The Ones I Remember? They Make Themselves Memorable.
Like the submissive who always gives Me a pedicure during foot worship.
Final Word: Dirty Is Not Devoted.
Sweaty, unkempt, frantic energy is not “raw masculinity.”
It’s not “what real men are like.”
It’s lazy.
And I don’t accept lazy.
I’ll work with fear, awkwardness, even uncertainty. But I won’t work with filth.
If you can’t clean your body for Me…
What else are you cutting corners on?
Want to serve well? Start with your skin.
Make your body the offering.
And I will remember how it felt to touch you - clean, open, ready.